도서소개

"지나고 보니
정말 고난은 선물입니다."

14번 두드려 맞으면 14K가 되고,
18번 두드려 맞으면 18K가 되고,
24번 두드려 맞으면 순금이 됩니다.
고난은 정금이 되는 지름길입니다.

누구에게나 힘든 순간이 있다. 누가 고난을 원하겠는가? 그러니 고통스러운 사람에게 다가가 ‘고난이 선물이다’라는 말을 쉽게 해서는 안 된다. 깊은 고난 가운데 있는 사람에게는 고난을 함께해 주는 사람이 필요할 뿐이다. 그가 들려주는 위로의 말보다 그의 눈물, 그의 한숨, 그의 온기가 진실로 위로가 된다.
우리 인생 가운데 고난이 면제된 사람은 없다. 피할 수 없는 고난이라면 어떻게 해야겠는가? 고난은 힘겹지만 유익하다. 고통을 견딘 만큼 강해지고, 고난을 이긴 만큼 깊어지는 법이다. 고난은 해답을 요구하는 것이 아니라 뚫고 이겨낼 의지를 요구한다. 눈물겨운 어려움에도 불구하고 고난을 이겨낸 사람들은 그 고통스러운 시간을 되돌아보며 회상한다. “지나고 보니 정말 고난은 선물입니다.”
인생의 고난 가운데 깊이 신음하고 있는 이에게 조정민의 잠언록은 위로를 주고, 고난을 이길 힘을 선물할 것이다.

책 본문중에서

1
풍랑은 영원하지 않습니다.
터널은 무한하지 않습니다.
견디면 다 지나갑니다.
지나고 보면 그 시간이 유익입니다.

11
씨앗이 죽지 않으면 나무가 살지 못하고,
알이 깨지지 않으면 새가 날지 못합니다.
무지개를 보고 싶다면
먼저 비바람을 견딜 준비를
해야만 합니다.

171
상처 없는 사람은 없습니다.
다만 자기 상처를 끌어안아
상처를 아물게 하는 사람과,
자기 상처를 계속 긁어
상처를 덧내는 사람이 있을 뿐입니다.

285
작은 사랑은
사람을 내 곁에 묶어 두지만,
큰 사랑은
사람을 내 곁에서 떠나보냅니다.

목차

Payment

Shipping

• Shipping Method : Parcel Service
• Shipping Area : 미국전지역
• Shipping Cost : ($ 4.99 USD) ~ ($ 9.99 USD)
• Shipping Time : 2 - 14 days

• - Shipping Method: DHL & EMS & USPS & UPS
  - International Shipping: All around the globe
  - Estimated Shipping Time: 3-6 business days from the payment.
  Please take into consideration that the products of your order may be unavailable or delayed in manufacturing according to the product’s type. In addition, one day delivery is not available.
  - Shipment: We will send your purchase after your payment for the order is confirmed. If you want to exchange or return the products, you must contact our staff member.
  - Shipping Cost
  1) The cost will be calculated by EMS price policy.
  2) Shipping to US, Canada, Australia, Japan, Hong Kong, China, Taiwan, Laos, Macao, Malaysia, Mongol, Myanmar, Vietnam, Singapore, Cambodia, Thai, Philippines
  For purchases over 200 USD: Free shipping
  For purchases from 100~200 USD: Free shipping
  For purchases less than 100 USD: Free shipping
  Shipping to other destinations: EMS Shipping costs are automatically charged.

Returns & Exchanges

Please make sure you have selected right options (e.g. size, color and quantity) prior to completing the order.
Once the order is completed, it is assumed that the customer agreed on our exchange/refund policy.
Requests for exchange/refund are accepted only if the requests are made within 3 days of the date of receipt via our “exchange/refund board”. The shipping costs occurring from refund process due to misdelivery or product defect are the responsibility of our shopping mall and we will make our best effort to process your request as soon as possible.

1. Requirements for exchange/refund request
Please take into consideration that [상점명] accepts refund requests only and not exchange requests.
① Eligible for refund:
- Refund requests that are made within 24 hours of order placement and payment (applicable to orders under [Preparing for shipping] status only)
- If your order remains under [Preparing Products] status for 10 days or longer from the date of payment without any notification from our customer service, you can request for cancellation of the applicable product via our exchange/refund board. After you receive your parcel excluding the specific product, please post a refund request on our exchange/refund board.
- Products that are out of stock
- Misdelivered orders
- Defective products
* Refund requests for the cases stated above are accepted only on condition that the products’ labels and tags are intact and products have not been tried on)
* To get your refund, the returned product must include the free gift given to the purchase of the item and keep its original condition.

② Ineligible for refund:
- Refund requests due to the customer’s change of mind (size, color, etc.)
- Refund requests for the entire order which contains out-of-stock products
- Refund requests for shoes, purses, and accessories are not accepted
- Refund requests for damaged or deformed products due to the customer’s responsibility
* Refund requests for products that have no tags or labels
* Wrinkles made during the shipping process or insufficient finishing due to the nature of the mass production cannot be the reason for the defection.

2. Refund Process
① Refund of out-of-stock products
* Single-product order: Please post a refund request on our exchange/refund board.
Order number, product code of the out-of-stock product, and the reason for the request are required (out-of-stock).
*Multiple-product order: Please post a refund request on our exchange/refund board AFTER you receive the rest of your order.
Order number, product codes of the out-of-stock products, and the reason for the request are required (out-of-stock).

② Refund of mis-delivered or defective products
Please post a refund request including pictures of the whole products and detailed pictures of the defective parts on our exchange/refund board.
Our customer service will shortly contact you upon checking on your request.
Order number, product codes of the mis-delivered or defective products, and the reason for the request are required (misdelivered/ defective)

③ If you find any product(s) of your order missing in your parcel
- Please contact our customer services the VERY DAY you receive your parcel.(via telephone or, if unavailable, via our web board)
- Please make sure you keep your parcel intact, including all the contents and package(the box and plastic bags etc.)
In order for us to examine the case and take appropriate action, it is crucial that you follow the instruction above.

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